Hello guysss, it's been FOREVER since I've updated my blog sorry! I've been super busy & haven't really had time to write anything. Today is thanksgiving! and I'm super excited !!! Yummy food and festivites await me. I just wanted to say I'm super thankful for life and another day of living, family and friends ! For the second year thanksgiving is at my house ! YAY! i'll be online for awhile so i'm looking up juice to share !
LOVE,
vxn muahhh !
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Friday, August 21, 2009
A Bad Behavior| Wife or Wifey?
First off I'll be the first to tell you that wifey to me doesn't really mean anything. It has no type of meaning but it sounds good. All the lil' dudes say it because they hear rappers say it in a rap. Wifey to me has always been 'Temporary' and Wife to me has always been stable. For example when a man introducing the woman who he put a ring on he says 'This is my wife'. Well while I was checking other blogs I came across a interesting post on compare and contrast of the difference between wife and wifey...
A WIFE...
• never has to compete with other women because she is the only woman her man is seeing, "talking to", and interested in. She knows this from his actions. Not just his words.• The wife knows her mans family and friends. She usually has her mans parents or guardians blessings. Along with his friends. If her lifelong partner's friends and family dont approve of her chances are she isnt going to be his wife.
• A man treats his wife with the utmost respect. Never cheats on her, or lies to her, or treat her like a jumpoff, a "main" or his "wifey".
• The wife usually sees a side of her partner that no one else sees. She knows her man inside and out. His darkest thoughts, secrets, etc. There are no mysteries. No cloudy areas. Everything is in the open.
• The wife is the woman who a man chooses to spend the rest of his life with. She gets the marriage proposal, the ring, and everything that man has to offer her for a lifetime.
A "WIFEY"...
• Is the woman who a man spends all of his time with. Usually been with for a long time. Maybe even live with. But isnt married or engaged. Ever thought why? Keep reading...
• Men know whether he is going to marry a woman in the early stages of the relationship. It takes us men no time to see if a woman is going to be around for a while...or a lifetime.
• The "wifey" also has met SOME of his family, and SOME of his friends. Sometimes the "wifey" may receive the mans family and friends blessings, but its usually over ruled by him...in the end.
• The "wifey" is equivalent to the "main". Meaning the one who he likes or cares about the most out of the women he deals with. The "wifey" is rarely the only one. Just in HER mind she is. But she dont know the TRUTH. Men are NEVER 100% faithful to a "wifey".Heres why...
• The "wifey" is the woman who he may spend years with. In his heart he knows he wont marry her though. He'll keep her around until the woman who he feels in his heart he WILL marry comes into his vision, then its curtains for the "wifey". A man is going to be faithful or dedicated to the "wifey" for so long before he starts roaming. He will eventually break up with the "wifey" and go be with the woman who he will make his WIFE. So ladies...please stop bragging about how your his "wifey", all that means is your his TEMPORARY wife until the PERMANENT wife comes along. Then its back to the drawing board for you. Don't be stupid. If you dont have a ring on your finger then your just his girlfriend. "Wifey" is a very low standard to claim.
Now this may be a bit "Grown up" for all of us but I couldn't put it into better words myself of the words Wife and Wifey. Either way if you want to hold a high standard in his life, tell him to 'Put a ring on it' .....=p
A WIFE...
• never has to compete with other women because she is the only woman her man is seeing, "talking to", and interested in. She knows this from his actions. Not just his words.• The wife knows her mans family and friends. She usually has her mans parents or guardians blessings. Along with his friends. If her lifelong partner's friends and family dont approve of her chances are she isnt going to be his wife.
• A man treats his wife with the utmost respect. Never cheats on her, or lies to her, or treat her like a jumpoff, a "main" or his "wifey".
• The wife usually sees a side of her partner that no one else sees. She knows her man inside and out. His darkest thoughts, secrets, etc. There are no mysteries. No cloudy areas. Everything is in the open.
• The wife is the woman who a man chooses to spend the rest of his life with. She gets the marriage proposal, the ring, and everything that man has to offer her for a lifetime.
A "WIFEY"...
• Is the woman who a man spends all of his time with. Usually been with for a long time. Maybe even live with. But isnt married or engaged. Ever thought why? Keep reading...
• Men know whether he is going to marry a woman in the early stages of the relationship. It takes us men no time to see if a woman is going to be around for a while...or a lifetime.
• The "wifey" also has met SOME of his family, and SOME of his friends. Sometimes the "wifey" may receive the mans family and friends blessings, but its usually over ruled by him...in the end.
• The "wifey" is equivalent to the "main". Meaning the one who he likes or cares about the most out of the women he deals with. The "wifey" is rarely the only one. Just in HER mind she is. But she dont know the TRUTH. Men are NEVER 100% faithful to a "wifey".Heres why...
• The "wifey" is the woman who he may spend years with. In his heart he knows he wont marry her though. He'll keep her around until the woman who he feels in his heart he WILL marry comes into his vision, then its curtains for the "wifey". A man is going to be faithful or dedicated to the "wifey" for so long before he starts roaming. He will eventually break up with the "wifey" and go be with the woman who he will make his WIFE. So ladies...please stop bragging about how your his "wifey", all that means is your his TEMPORARY wife until the PERMANENT wife comes along. Then its back to the drawing board for you. Don't be stupid. If you dont have a ring on your finger then your just his girlfriend. "Wifey" is a very low standard to claim.
Now this may be a bit "Grown up" for all of us but I couldn't put it into better words myself of the words Wife and Wifey. Either way if you want to hold a high standard in his life, tell him to 'Put a ring on it' .....=p
Monday, August 17, 2009
G Of The Month
Lady GaGa MURDERS! everything she puts her hands on. I'm into the pop crazy music but her music has me jumping around my bedroom with my remote control in hand singing every word. [Not really] but I love her style even though the girl never wears pants! what's up with that G? well she's still hot [no homo] and I'm waiting for the next record for her to murder.
Song of the week
So while I've been out doing my thing for the week with my girls whenever I turned on the TV this song came on. Now I'm a big fan of Bee but I wasn't feeling this song the first time I heard it.
Here it is... ENJOY!
Here it is... ENJOY!
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Swagga Like Us
I follow this Teyana Taylor on twitter and she post this, I think it was a hot freestyle with Nefu Da Don, Cory Gun[who killed it!], Squara off and teyana taylor. If I had to say so myself this was well done.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
vxnbhr. [shhh]
I really don't have much to say... been in MD for about a week now and NOTHING has really jumped off, met a cutieeee today haha i'm not saying no names! but dude was pretty bold and I liked that. We exchanged numbers so I will be keeping in touch with him....he doesn't know it yet but i have a boyfriend. I not interested in dude but he seems like good conversation.
Friday, July 31, 2009
Beauty And The .....Tyga?
Sooooo check this right! I'm flipping through a vogue magazine when I see this photo of Tyga and Chanel Iman and my first thought is you can't be serious. It's said from the both of them that they are an "Item" but when you look at the beauty you don't think of someone like tyga. Tyga is eye candy don't get me wrong but this is definitely a odd but cute couple. I wish them both luck on the relationship she'll really need it.
Man Of The Week
Wiz Khalifa, The dude is a beast and he's hott! he's been underground for a while but I think now I'm starting to hear about him more. I've been listening to him for a year now but he's younger than I thought [born in 87 you do the math] the tatted cutie is doing his thing, hopefully he'll stay in the lime light . If you haven't heard him before I put a few tubes up for you all to listen too, My favorite songs too !!!!! Check him out
Asher Is The Ish
I love this remix, I knew from jump asher was that dude but ya'll ASHER IS THAT DUDE!!!!!
check out his freestyle, it's on my myspace too
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Solange Rose???
I woke up ths morning and did my daily gossip searching when I fell upon this ^^ from one of my favorite sites "Global Grind" .....Now,Now,Now solange knows better. I love that she's taking new risk and doing something new and funky but honestly babygirl should have left that look to Amber Rose. Well at the end of the day I love solange hopefully she won't get knocked for trying something new.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Top five things to score me & annoy me !
Top five things that annoy me and Top five things that score me !
1. Waking me up while i'm sleeping
2. Immaturity
3. Intimidation by a strong female [males only]
4. Not being punctual !
5. Weakness
1. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do NOT wake me up while I'm sleeping. It's just something that you don't do. I ignore calls while i'm sleeping and because I get very little sleep it just annoys the heck out of me when people wake me up! sleeping is valuable ! lol but I'am a go getter therefore I can't sleep my life away. Just like in school when they say don't go the nurse/ bathroom unless your sick in their class or about to die. Don't wake me up unless someone is dying or in danger. Point blank! because when I wake up I'm going to be a ______ (you know lol) to you and everybody else.
2.Immaturity is a serious one because I have a low tolerance for people espicially boys who claim they are on their 'grown man' stuff and are as immature as they come. It annoys me therefore I can't be around people like that because it leads to a arguement. Espicially if we're dating and you do something immature that makes me really mad lol (ask a few of my ex's) but for the most part I don't hang with the young'ns therefore I rarely ever have that problem.
3. For those who don't know what this means, I'll give you a example. 'Soooo you see this guy that interest you but he feels as though he can't have you because your to much for him like a gansta and a ceo' Lol best example I can come up with but yeah when guys are intimidated by women who they feel are too good for them. Sweetheart you can have whomever you want if your coming with the right 'swagger'. It's all about presentation espicially to me. Come hard or don't come at all, and speak with your moves instead of your mouth and that applies to everyone.
4. Being late is never okay with me even though I'm late sometimes too but I can't really say much about that but be on time or try to be.
5. Weakness is also a big one for me because weakness is an excuse for effort. I don't care to be around weak people or people who make excuses for themselves. If you strive to do whatever you want to do nine times out of ten you'll do it. Work hard hard hard ! and you'll be a BEAST!.
PART II. : Five Ways To Score Me
1. Swagger
2. Articulate!
3. Commited
4. Funny
5. Knowledgable.
1. Swagger comes in play with friends,boyfriends/girlfriends, co-workers whomever you choose to take interest in. With myself if you don't have your own "swagger" then you don't stand out to me. Each of my friends are different and I mean VERY different you can't put them all in the same category is you tried because of thee versatility. I love meeting new people but it won't be that signficant if know somebody like you. You need all types of differen't people in your life and being versatile can only help you and NEVER hurt you.
2. This is a huge one. For those who don't know what the word articulate means it means to be able to speak and express yourself readily,clearly or effectively. Thats important because if we can't do something as simple as holding a steady conversation then I see nothing instore for us as anything. Nobody wants to hear the crickets singing in the conversation because that only makes it more awkward for the both of you.
3.Commitment and Consistency is important because I think its good to surround yourself around people who are commited to something because if they aren't then that means that they aren't good at staying to one thing and often leave things undone or unfinished. Commitment is a good character trait to have whether it's in a relationship with a significant other or a coach. You have to be commited to your team and your sport and be willing to learn consistency too in order to win. You also have to be commited to your relationship in order for it to be long lasting. [darnit I'm good at this lol]
4. Funny! YOU NOT MAKE ME LAUGH, WE NOT FRIENDS!. You have to have some humor about something. I'm always laughing even if I did something stupid, laughing is one of the best medicines that you'll ever find on this earth and if someone can't proscribe it to you then that's not good because you can catch this disease called stress and then your start losing friends and things like that and if it gets really bad then it's rumored that some do die from the illness, so get treated by the best proscriber you know. lol
5. Knowledge is the KEY to SUCCESS. Nobody wants a chick woth no brains and a dude who's just good at sports and other type of things lol. I think it's a good trait to have espicially if you and I can relate to the exact same thing on a higher level. It's nothing wrong with being educated, it's what black people need to do these days because we do have an african american president sitting in the white house so that's no excuse to slack, instead you need to strive harder and compete with these other faces that we see all of the time and make a name of our own for ourselves instead of letting white people do it for us. Also it's just a turn on to see an educated black male doing his thing! one of the best things ever. Lol
Which leads me to this. This all has come from my cranium, I didn't copy and paste anything and if you choose to judge me then that's fine.I'am just talking about things that I LIKE & DON'T LIKE. For example the pro's and con's of getting to know the real LeJuana. Not your average chick because Woman like me come from venus lmao. No but really take some of this stuff in even if you don't know me and never find yourself getting to know me, either way it's just good stuff to know. Thanks to BRANDON for stressing the fact that I need to add the score me part to this lol you didn't really stress it but you thought I would just tell you! lol anyway hun you resemble these good things to me ;) .
1. Waking me up while i'm sleeping
2. Immaturity
3. Intimidation by a strong female [males only]
4. Not being punctual !
5. Weakness
1. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do NOT wake me up while I'm sleeping. It's just something that you don't do. I ignore calls while i'm sleeping and because I get very little sleep it just annoys the heck out of me when people wake me up! sleeping is valuable ! lol but I'am a go getter therefore I can't sleep my life away. Just like in school when they say don't go the nurse/ bathroom unless your sick in their class or about to die. Don't wake me up unless someone is dying or in danger. Point blank! because when I wake up I'm going to be a ______ (you know lol) to you and everybody else.
2.Immaturity is a serious one because I have a low tolerance for people espicially boys who claim they are on their 'grown man' stuff and are as immature as they come. It annoys me therefore I can't be around people like that because it leads to a arguement. Espicially if we're dating and you do something immature that makes me really mad lol (ask a few of my ex's) but for the most part I don't hang with the young'ns therefore I rarely ever have that problem.
3. For those who don't know what this means, I'll give you a example. 'Soooo you see this guy that interest you but he feels as though he can't have you because your to much for him like a gansta and a ceo' Lol best example I can come up with but yeah when guys are intimidated by women who they feel are too good for them. Sweetheart you can have whomever you want if your coming with the right 'swagger'. It's all about presentation espicially to me. Come hard or don't come at all, and speak with your moves instead of your mouth and that applies to everyone.
4. Being late is never okay with me even though I'm late sometimes too but I can't really say much about that but be on time or try to be.
5. Weakness is also a big one for me because weakness is an excuse for effort. I don't care to be around weak people or people who make excuses for themselves. If you strive to do whatever you want to do nine times out of ten you'll do it. Work hard hard hard ! and you'll be a BEAST!.
PART II. : Five Ways To Score Me
1. Swagger
2. Articulate!
3. Commited
4. Funny
5. Knowledgable.
1. Swagger comes in play with friends,boyfriends/girlfriends, co-workers whomever you choose to take interest in. With myself if you don't have your own "swagger" then you don't stand out to me. Each of my friends are different and I mean VERY different you can't put them all in the same category is you tried because of thee versatility. I love meeting new people but it won't be that signficant if know somebody like you. You need all types of differen't people in your life and being versatile can only help you and NEVER hurt you.
2. This is a huge one. For those who don't know what the word articulate means it means to be able to speak and express yourself readily,clearly or effectively. Thats important because if we can't do something as simple as holding a steady conversation then I see nothing instore for us as anything. Nobody wants to hear the crickets singing in the conversation because that only makes it more awkward for the both of you.
3.Commitment and Consistency is important because I think its good to surround yourself around people who are commited to something because if they aren't then that means that they aren't good at staying to one thing and often leave things undone or unfinished. Commitment is a good character trait to have whether it's in a relationship with a significant other or a coach. You have to be commited to your team and your sport and be willing to learn consistency too in order to win. You also have to be commited to your relationship in order for it to be long lasting. [darnit I'm good at this lol]
4. Funny! YOU NOT MAKE ME LAUGH, WE NOT FRIENDS!. You have to have some humor about something. I'm always laughing even if I did something stupid, laughing is one of the best medicines that you'll ever find on this earth and if someone can't proscribe it to you then that's not good because you can catch this disease called stress and then your start losing friends and things like that and if it gets really bad then it's rumored that some do die from the illness, so get treated by the best proscriber you know. lol
5. Knowledge is the KEY to SUCCESS. Nobody wants a chick woth no brains and a dude who's just good at sports and other type of things lol. I think it's a good trait to have espicially if you and I can relate to the exact same thing on a higher level. It's nothing wrong with being educated, it's what black people need to do these days because we do have an african american president sitting in the white house so that's no excuse to slack, instead you need to strive harder and compete with these other faces that we see all of the time and make a name of our own for ourselves instead of letting white people do it for us. Also it's just a turn on to see an educated black male doing his thing! one of the best things ever. Lol
Which leads me to this. This all has come from my cranium, I didn't copy and paste anything and if you choose to judge me then that's fine.I'am just talking about things that I LIKE & DON'T LIKE. For example the pro's and con's of getting to know the real LeJuana. Not your average chick because Woman like me come from venus lmao. No but really take some of this stuff in even if you don't know me and never find yourself getting to know me, either way it's just good stuff to know. Thanks to BRANDON for stressing the fact that I need to add the score me part to this lol you didn't really stress it but you thought I would just tell you! lol anyway hun you resemble these good things to me ;) .
Lutroduction.
Hello there,
I'm Lu...In case you don't know [Well duhhh you don't] but I'm def no amateur at this "Blog Game". I have no limits... my blogging in unscripted. I have big dreams and plans in my life and the Lord will help me get there. For starters I'm down with the myspace/twitter thing. I have a twitter even though I'm not on much. I'm into music and positive energy. I'll blog about just about anything...I love fashion and I have alot of input too. Just keep an eye on me I move fast !
Huasta luego,
Luvxn.
I'm Lu...In case you don't know [Well duhhh you don't] but I'm def no amateur at this "Blog Game". I have no limits... my blogging in unscripted. I have big dreams and plans in my life and the Lord will help me get there. For starters I'm down with the myspace/twitter thing. I have a twitter even though I'm not on much. I'm into music and positive energy. I'll blog about just about anything...I love fashion and I have alot of input too. Just keep an eye on me I move fast !
Huasta luego,
Luvxn.
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