Top five things that annoy me and Top five things that score me !
1. Waking me up while i'm sleeping
2. Immaturity
3. Intimidation by a strong female [males only]
4. Not being punctual !
5. Weakness
1. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do NOT wake me up while I'm sleeping. It's just something that you don't do. I ignore calls while i'm sleeping and because I get very little sleep it just annoys the heck out of me when people wake me up! sleeping is valuable ! lol but I'am a go getter therefore I can't sleep my life away. Just like in school when they say don't go the nurse/ bathroom unless your sick in their class or about to die. Don't wake me up unless someone is dying or in danger. Point blank! because when I wake up I'm going to be a ______ (you know lol) to you and everybody else.
2.Immaturity is a serious one because I have a low tolerance for people espicially boys who claim they are on their 'grown man' stuff and are as immature as they come. It annoys me therefore I can't be around people like that because it leads to a arguement. Espicially if we're dating and you do something immature that makes me really mad lol (ask a few of my ex's) but for the most part I don't hang with the young'ns therefore I rarely ever have that problem.
3. For those who don't know what this means, I'll give you a example. 'Soooo you see this guy that interest you but he feels as though he can't have you because your to much for him like a gansta and a ceo' Lol best example I can come up with but yeah when guys are intimidated by women who they feel are too good for them. Sweetheart you can have whomever you want if your coming with the right 'swagger'. It's all about presentation espicially to me. Come hard or don't come at all, and speak with your moves instead of your mouth and that applies to everyone.
4. Being late is never okay with me even though I'm late sometimes too but I can't really say much about that but be on time or try to be.
5. Weakness is also a big one for me because weakness is an excuse for effort. I don't care to be around weak people or people who make excuses for themselves. If you strive to do whatever you want to do nine times out of ten you'll do it. Work hard hard hard ! and you'll be a BEAST!.
PART II. : Five Ways To Score Me
1. Swagger
2. Articulate!
3. Commited
4. Funny
5. Knowledgable.
1. Swagger comes in play with friends,boyfriends/girlfriends, co-workers whomever you choose to take interest in. With myself if you don't have your own "swagger" then you don't stand out to me. Each of my friends are different and I mean VERY different you can't put them all in the same category is you tried because of thee versatility. I love meeting new people but it won't be that signficant if know somebody like you. You need all types of differen't people in your life and being versatile can only help you and NEVER hurt you.
2. This is a huge one. For those who don't know what the word articulate means it means to be able to speak and express yourself readily,clearly or effectively. Thats important because if we can't do something as simple as holding a steady conversation then I see nothing instore for us as anything. Nobody wants to hear the crickets singing in the conversation because that only makes it more awkward for the both of you.
3.Commitment and Consistency is important because I think its good to surround yourself around people who are commited to something because if they aren't then that means that they aren't good at staying to one thing and often leave things undone or unfinished. Commitment is a good character trait to have whether it's in a relationship with a significant other or a coach. You have to be commited to your team and your sport and be willing to learn consistency too in order to win. You also have to be commited to your relationship in order for it to be long lasting. [darnit I'm good at this lol]
4. Funny! YOU NOT MAKE ME LAUGH, WE NOT FRIENDS!. You have to have some humor about something. I'm always laughing even if I did something stupid, laughing is one of the best medicines that you'll ever find on this earth and if someone can't proscribe it to you then that's not good because you can catch this disease called stress and then your start losing friends and things like that and if it gets really bad then it's rumored that some do die from the illness, so get treated by the best proscriber you know. lol
5. Knowledge is the KEY to SUCCESS. Nobody wants a chick woth no brains and a dude who's just good at sports and other type of things lol. I think it's a good trait to have espicially if you and I can relate to the exact same thing on a higher level. It's nothing wrong with being educated, it's what black people need to do these days because we do have an african american president sitting in the white house so that's no excuse to slack, instead you need to strive harder and compete with these other faces that we see all of the time and make a name of our own for ourselves instead of letting white people do it for us. Also it's just a turn on to see an educated black male doing his thing! one of the best things ever. Lol
Which leads me to this. This all has come from my cranium, I didn't copy and paste anything and if you choose to judge me then that's fine.I'am just talking about things that I LIKE & DON'T LIKE. For example the pro's and con's of getting to know the real LeJuana. Not your average chick because Woman like me come from venus lmao. No but really take some of this stuff in even if you don't know me and never find yourself getting to know me, either way it's just good stuff to know. Thanks to BRANDON for stressing the fact that I need to add the score me part to this lol you didn't really stress it but you thought I would just tell you! lol anyway hun you resemble these good things to me ;) .
